Archive for May, 2007

Responding to Criticism Without Being Defensive

Sunday, May 13th, 2007

In an actual war, to be attacked means to have our survival threatened. Thus, we might chose between surrender, withdrawal, or counterattack. When we feel attacked (criticized or judged) by others in conversation, we often move into that same kind of survival mentality and automatically defend ourselves. But conversation is different than war. When we […]

Alias: Aptitude

Saturday, May 12th, 2007

Be aware. You may become totally overwhelmed when you get the results of the special education testing on your child. There is a lot of “stuff” on that report! And much of it sounds like a foreign language to many people.
You get one piece the results from the Intelligence part of the test. This is […]

How to Take Charge of the TV

Saturday, May 12th, 2007

Many children enjoy TV, and they can learn from it. Keep in mind, though, that young children often imitate what they see, good or bad. It’s up to you to decide how much TV and what kinds of shows your child should watch.
Think about your child’s age and choose the types of things that you […]

Children - Blessing or Curse

Friday, May 11th, 2007

You’re trying to catch up on some sleep on a quiet Saturday morning when you hear the shrill scream of a child, who seems upset with the fact that another child is pointing at him or her, and has done so for the past three minutes. You turn over and hope that they will resolve […]

How to End the Misery of Bedwetting

Friday, May 11th, 2007

When a child wets the bed they worry. Children tend to become dry during the day more easily than at night. During the day they are awake and aware of their feelings and can go to the toilet normally. However, at night, when they are asleep, the usual feelings of a full bladder aren’t sufficiently […]

Facing the Homeschool Super Mom

Thursday, May 10th, 2007

I know this Mom. She homeschools her 5 children, plus she tutors several other children that are dropped off at her house. AND she’s a Pastor’s wife. AND she’s working on fixing up the fixer-upper they just moved into. Whenever I’ve been in her house, it’s been immaculate. Her children all have perfect manners. They […]

Parenting Your Teenager: Ask Questions

Thursday, May 10th, 2007

Many parents seem to be more than a little confused about what they have a right to know about their teens.
The question I often get goes something like this:
“We want to know where our 16-year-old son is going to be, and who he is with. He makes it sound as if we are the most […]

How To Use Positive Child Discipline

Wednesday, May 9th, 2007

I am a single mother of a 17 year old boy. He has turned out so great. Honor Student. Just a loving person. I attribute this to the way I brought up my son. I can’t say I never yelled at him–that would not be true but I did not hit my son. Hitting is […]

How to Assist Troubled Teens

Tuesday, May 8th, 2007

What parents of a teen haven’t wondered where their sweet child went and who the angry and rebellious child is that took his or her place. After all, adolescence is a time of change. While each child is different, there are some behaviors that all normal teens seem to exhibit. These include: acting moody and/or […]

Ease Bug Bites with Easy Herbs

Monday, May 7th, 2007

Summertime means insect bites and stings. Ouch! Take a leaf from Susun S. Weed’s storehouse of natural remedies: Soothe, heal, and prevent bites with safe herbal remedies that grow right where you live: north or south, east or west, city or country. The best natural remedies for insect bites are right underfoot.
Plantain, also called ribwort, […]