Archive for May, 2007

Overscheduled Kids

Monday, May 7th, 2007

Time devoted the better part of an issue to it. Newsweek featured an article titled "Busy Around the Clock." Articles with titles like "Whatever Happened to Play?" "Pushing Children Too Hard," and "Are You Over-Scheduling Your kids?" show up in print media and on the Internet. Books with titles like Hyper-Parenting: Are Your Hurting Your […]

Top Ten Reasons to Hold Family Meetings

Sunday, May 6th, 2007

1. Make stronger connections among individuals and, therefore, creates a closer family.
In this very busy world, designating this time every week is one way to ensure that family members stay connected with one another. Relationships are living things, and must be nurtured. Family meetings are about nourishing our relationships with the most important people in […]

First Year With Twins - A Father?s Point Of View

Saturday, May 5th, 2007

People always ask my wife and I: "How did you ever do it with two babies? I just can’t imagine it". My answer is always the same?we just do. We just do what needs to be done. Yes, it’s hard. Yes, it’s exhausting. Yes, it’s stressful. But we find a way to get the things […]

Tips For a First-Time Dad

Saturday, May 5th, 2007

So you’re going to become a father. Now is not the time to panic. You’ve got lots of time to get used to the idea, before that new life you helped create, arrives to join your own. These tips for a first-time Dad will help you to survive the pre-baby and post-birth jitters.
Be supportive of […]

Eating Disorders in Children

Friday, May 4th, 2007

If I had a dollar for every time I persuaded a girl of 8 or 9 that they were not, in fact, fat, I’d be considerably richer. When my older daughter was about that age, their mothers were putting a lot of her friends on diets. It drove me absolutely crazy to see these poor […]

Stroller Safety Tips

Friday, May 4th, 2007

Strollers offer a wonderful and convenient service to parents and caregivers. The first priority in choosing a stroller should be safety.
To prevent tipping, choose a stroller that has a wide base so even when your child leans over there is no chance of the stroller tipping.
If you purchase a stroller that includes a recliner position […]

How Can I Teach My Child To Be Responsible?

Thursday, May 3rd, 2007

Most of us when asked what we want our children to become, we include “responsible” among other things such as happy, fulfilled and caring. We want our children to learn to make wise choices, be responsible for their actions and live responsibly.
Do we teach children to become responsible by simply giving them chores to do? […]

STOP Parental Alienation Syndrome before It Gets a Chance to START

Wednesday, May 2nd, 2007

Parental Alienation Syndrome was probably first identified and codified by Dr. Richard Gardner in his book of the same name. He first laid out his thesis in 1985 in an article, “Recent Trends in Divorce and Custody Litigation.” He expanded this into the book “Parental Alienation Syndrome,” and since then, PAS has been written about, […]

COMMITMENT: Teaching Children the Lessons of a Lifetime

Tuesday, May 1st, 2007

It’s been said, time and again, that for a child to learn what is most important, he must be shown the lessons through example, not through words. And, if we are to nurture certain traits within our children, we must first develop those traits in ourselves.
I’ve been teaching martial arts to children for a decade […]

Who Will Be Their Guardian?

Tuesday, May 1st, 2007

If you are like most people today, you do not have a will. The reasons for this failure are many, with the most common being along the lines of "I don’t have enough assets to worry about", "I don’t know how to write a will", or "Lawyers charge a lot of money".
Here’s my answer to […]