Archive for November, 2007

ADHD: Some Survival Strategies for Parents

Friday, November 30th, 2007

In our last issue we posted some of our suggested Survival Strategies for parents, and then asked readers to contribute some of their thoughts or tips. Since this newsletter is already running pretty long, I’ll only list a few of them below. Thank you to all of you who contributed!
Laugh. Be silly with your kids. […]

Tracking Your Child Progress

Monday, November 26th, 2007

As a parent, you can learn a lot about your child’s learning and watch for signs of possible problems. Here are some things to look for and to discuss with his teacher:
Starting at age 3 or 4:
Does your child remember nursery rhymes, and can he play rhyming games?
At about age 4: Can your child get […]

How To Teach Your Children Love

Sunday, November 25th, 2007

I was in the life insurance sales industry for over 8 years. One of best teaching that I have learned from the industry and found in all top sales professionals and successful individuals is:
“All super successful individuals love people more than they love money.”
And it is their love for people that make them wealthy and […]

STOP Parental Alienation Syndrome before It Gets a Chance to START

Thursday, November 22nd, 2007

Parental Alienation Syndrome was probably first identified and codified by Dr. Richard Gardner in his book of the same name. He first laid out his thesis in 1985 in an article, “Recent Trends in Divorce and Custody Litigation.” He expanded this into the book “Parental Alienation Syndrome,” and since then, PAS has been written about, […]

10 Tips for Making Daily Physical Activity Part of Your Childs Life!

Tuesday, November 20th, 2007

Here’s some of the bad news about sedentary lifestyles:
? Forty percent of children ages 5 to 8 show at least one heart disease risk factor, including hypertension and obesity, which among children has doubled over the past two decades.
? The first signs of arteriosclerosis (hardening of the arteries) are appearing at age 5 ? something […]

Parenting Your Teenager: Truth or Lie?

Monday, November 19th, 2007

Attention all parents of teen-agers. Here is an important, groundbreaking and even shocking bulletin for you:
According to research conducted at the prestigious-sounding Josephson Institute of Ethics in, of course, California, here are two startling pieces of information:
1) 92 percent of teens surveyed admitted to lying to their parents at least once in the last year.
2) […]

How To Homeschool Without Making Your Child An Outcast

Sunday, November 18th, 2007

If you are currently homeschooling or considering homeschooling your child, you probably know all the benefits homeschooling can provide. You’ll have more control over the curriculum, be able to customize teaching to your child’s personal learning style, and avoid the pressures and dangers of public schools. However, are you aware of the major mental and […]

Parenting Your Teenager: How to Respond to Manipulation

Friday, November 16th, 2007

Q. My daughter has gotten very good at manipulating us, and sometimes we do not even know it has happened until much later. How can we tell if we are being manipulated, and how can we stop it, or at least handle it better?
A. Here’s the thing about teens and manipulation:
The average 15-year-old is 15 […]

How Being a Mom Makes You a Better Professional

Thursday, November 15th, 2007

“Becoming a parent can make you a better worker,” New York Times writer Lisa Belkins said in a recent column.
I’d always heard that becoming a parent made MEN better workers. The common “wisdom” said fatherhood made men more stable and better motivated.
Women, the old prejudice held, would become unreliable once children arrived. Motherhood would bring […]

Why Wont My Child Do as I Say?

Tuesday, November 13th, 2007

In speaking with parents a comment I frequently hear is "My child won’t listen!" Repeated attempts in trying to get a child to co-operate often lands on deaf ears and leaves parents feeling exhausted and helpless. Frequently we say things we later regret and become riddled with guilt. Usual attempts often include nagging, yelling, spanking, […]