Archive for January, 2008

Discipline

Saturday, January 19th, 2008

Discipline is a necessary part of parenting yet it makes most parents feel uncomfortable. Some of those old disciplinary phrases such as ’spare the rod and spoil the child’, ‘teach them a lesson’ or ’set children straight’ are enough to send shivers up the spine of any reasonable-minded parent.
Discipline for the majority of the twentieth […]

Give Your Child the Gift of Self-Esteem

Friday, January 18th, 2008

Much has been said about the “gifted child” but in truth every child is born with unlimited potential. As expressed so well by Orison Marden:
“Deep within man dwell those slumbering powers; powers that would astonish him, that he never dreamed of possessing; forces that would revolutionize his life if aroused and put into action.”
This statement […]

Raising a Self-Sufficient Teen

Thursday, January 17th, 2008

Teens don’t learn responsibility overnight. If you haven’t been working with your teen on gradually giving them a sense of independence and ownership of their lives, then you’re going to have your work cut out for you. Don’t wait until it’s too late.
By the time your children are in high school, they should be doing […]

Authoritarian Parenting, Permissive Parenting, or Loving Parenting

Wednesday, January 16th, 2008

Angie was brought up by rigid, authoritarian parents who kept her on a tight leash. They rarely considered her feelings about anything, showing a complete lack of empathy and compassion for her feelings and desires. If she came home five minutes late from school or from an activity, she was punished. Yelling and hitting were […]

Single Parents: Give Yourselves Credit

Tuesday, January 15th, 2008

Single parents are not often thought of as good parents.
I became acutely aware of this fact when my children were young and I was dealing with the challenges of being a single mom. An “expert” told me that the increase in the number of dysfunctional families was directly related to the increasing number of single-parent […]

What is Prenatal Intelligence?

Sunday, January 13th, 2008

Prenatal intelligence, also known as fetal intelligence, has become a very hot topic among medical professionals and expecting parents because of the affects it might have on the fetus. Many studies have been done that show a link between fetal stimulation and intelligence as well as increased development of motor skills, language and social skills. […]

Guide to Choosing Plush Toys for Children

Saturday, January 12th, 2008

Many people consider plush toys great for children. They say that plush is a soft material that children love very much and that plush toys are so adorable, that you can’t resist them.
I agree, but what do doctors have to say about it? Are plush toys the best for children?
Plush toys are very popular nowadays. […]

Beyond the Words, a Childs Voice

Friday, January 11th, 2008

Voices have a way of falling into a pattern, not unlike the sound of constant rain. At first, the rain is obvious as it dramatically announces its arrival, and for a brief moment, you acknowledge the intrusion. But slowly, the rhythmic sounds fade into the background, becoming nothing more than a distant drone.
We are fortunate […]

You Make Me Sick And Other Things Parents Say in Anger

Thursday, January 10th, 2008

Maryann is so focused she’s blind. She’s slipped over the edge of responsibility and forgot the real reason she is working so hard. It’s for her daughter.
Being a single parent isn’t easy. Between working, grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning and homework, there isn’t much time left in the day. It’s a heavy burden to be the […]

Four Tips For Alleviating Back To School Anxiety

Wednesday, January 9th, 2008

Back to school preparations are in full-swing. Soon, the first bell of the year will ring and the sounds of summer will be replaced by the voices of school-aged children bemoaning the end of their summer and trying to sort out their new school routines: What building am I in? Who’s my teacher this year? […]